Tell me about your relationship…  “I’m  the middle child. My brother was one year older than me, and my sister  is four years younger. It was one of those things…I didn’t know her well  because when I was leaving for college, she was going into hig
  How was it being the youngest?  “I’m the baby, but I’m the person in charge!” “Oh she’d like to think so!”
  Is the sister you knew as a child the same one you know now?  “I’m  gonna say yes. She’s always had that ‘I’m a thinker’ way about her.  She’s always thinking. And that’s what most of her baby pictures look  like…she was always trying to work somet
  Did y’all fight as kids?  “Oh there was lots  of fighting going on! Mostly between my brother and I. You could get  into big trouble fighting her. But she was sneaky! So we had to be very  careful because she’s one of those you’d say, “Listen up. D
  What’s one of your favorite memories with her?  “May  of 1978. I had just graduated from high school, and that’s when she  sent for me to come to Detroit. As a graduation present. That was my  first time out of Birmingham. I was 17, and we really d
  Can you tell me about losing your brother?  “It  was devastating. We were close in the way that, he might get on my  nerves but if anyone else has a problem with him then they have a  problem with me. We were close like that. When he passed, it was
  What’s something you learned from her?  “She’s  always encouraged me to look for the bigger picture. Don’t just get a  job for the moment. Don’t just start with this small step. She taught me  how you need to look ahead for advancement. Because she
 “She’s a people person, and that’s harder for me. I’m super  introverted. She’s Miss Congeniality all the time, and people gravitate  toward her. She is easy with them. She’s not always that nice, but they  still like her, right? I’m not that nice,
  What makes her laugh?  “Oooh Lord. What makes her laugh? I don’t know what makes her laugh.” “What makes anybody laugh? We laugh a lot but…” “Go on and tell the truth…we don’t know the answer to that one!”
  What’s the best thing about having a sibling?  “I  think the best thing is that I have a witness to my mom and my  grandparents. There’s someone else who knew them in a way that I knew  them. That was the hardest thing when my mom died…because who
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